In Historic First, Belgian Bishop Calls Church to Bless Lesbian & Gay Couples

For the first time in known history, a Roman Catholic bishop has explicitly called for the Church to recognize and bless committed same-gender relationships.   New Ways Ministry strongly applauds this bold and courageous move.

Bishop Johan Bonny

Bishop Johan Bonny of Antwerp, Belgium, made his comments in an interview with De Morgen, a Belgian newspaper that was published on December 27, 2014.  He called for the Church to recognize the faithfulness and commitment of same-gender couples in the same way that the Church recognizes the relationships of heterosexual couples.   A news story about the interview in The National Catholic Reporter contained excerpts translated into English, including:

“There should be recognition of a diversity of forms. We have to look inside the church for a formal recognition of the kind of interpersonal relationship that is also present in many gay couples. Just as there are a variety of legal frameworks for partners in civil society, one must arrive at a diversity of forms in the church. … The intrinsic values are more important to me than the institutional question. The Christian ethic is based on lasting relationships where exclusivity, loyalty, and care are central to each other.”

Bonny acknowledged that the pontificate of Pope Francis, which has offered greater openness to LGBT issues, has motivated to speak his mind.  On whether the Church will eventually bless lesbian and gay couples’ relationships, he said:

“Personally, I find that in the church more space must be given to acknowledge the actual quality of gay and lesbian couples; and such a form of shared-life should meet the same criteria as found in an ecclesiastical marriage.… And we have to acknowledge that such criteria can be found in a diversity of relationships and one needs to search for various models to give form to those relationships.”

Bonny also stated that he still considers that heterosexual marriage should maintain its unique place in the Church:

“This relationship will continue to retain its own particular sacramental character and liturgical form. But this particularity does not have to be exclusive nor does it have to close the door on a diversity of relationships whose inner qualities the church can acknowledge.”

“Indeed, we need to seek a formal recognition of the kind of relationship that exists between many gay and lesbian couples. Does that recognition have to be a sacramental marriage? Perhaps the church could much better reflect on a diversity of forms of relationships. One has the same kind of discussion about civil marriages. In Belgium the same model (for civil marriages) exists for man-woman relations as well as for same-sex relations.”

Bishop Bonny’s statements are the first time a bishop has explicitly called for ecclesiastical recognition of same-gender couples, but it is not the first time that a bishop has shown support for such ideas.  In the 1990s, Bishop Jacques Gaillot of Evreux, France, was removed from his diocese, in part because he blessed a gay couple’s relationship.  Bishop Geoffrey Robinson, a retired auxiliary bishop of Sydney, Australia, has called for the Church to revamp its sexual ethics in a more progressive way, and in a way which would open the possibility of recognizing and blessing same-gender relationships.  Many bishops and other church leaders have recently been calling for legal recognition of same-gender couples, though none has gone so far as to ask for recognition from the Church for these couples.

Bonny was in the news in September 2014 when he released a paper in advance of the synod on marriage and family, in which he called for greater openness to gay and lesbian couples, divorced and remarried people, and cohabitating partners.

The National Catholic Reporter article quoted  Professor Rik Torfs, a canon law scholar and the rector of the Catholic University of Leuven, Belgium, who noted the import of Bonny’s remarks:

“Do not underestimate the significance of this. Bonny advocates a change from principles long held as unshakable, something no bishop could have done under the dogmatic pontificates of Pope John Paul II and Pope Benedict XVI.”

New Ways Ministry strongly applauds Bishop Bonny’s call for ecclesiastical recognition of same-gender couples. His request is based on the fact that the moral qualities of faithfulness, loyalty, and care which characterize lesbian and gay couples are the very same principles which characterize the unique form of heterosexually married couples.  These principles are the same ones which the majority of Catholic theologians today say should be the basis of the Church’s sexual ethics, instead of basing these ethics on a procreative standard and the outdated concept of male-female complementarity.

Gay and lesbian Catholics and their supporters will surely welcome Bishop Bonny’s call, as this call has been expressed for many decades now, though previous papacies have tried to silence it.  It comes at a time when the entire Church is focused on the idea of marriage and family as we discuss these issues in this year between the synods.  Bishop Bonny’s statements will have a profound effect on this discussion because he is raising an idea which has too long been suppressed, but which many in the Church have desired.  He gives voice to a major segment of Catholicism which has previously been voiceless.

Courage breeds courage.  Let’s pray that other bishops will follow Bishop Bonny’s example and speak out for recognizing the holiness in the committed relationships of lesbian and gay couples.

–Francis DeBernardo, New Ways Ministry

22 Responses to In Historic First, Belgian Bishop Calls Church to Bless Lesbian & Gay Couples

  1. Brian Kneeland says:

    Remember too Bishop Thomas Gumbleton, retired auxiliary of Detroit, called for formal recognition early on when his brother came out. He also recently publicly disagreed with Archbishop Vigneron in his opposition of LGBT people.

  2. pjnugent says:

    Pope Francis answered John XXIII’s call to open the windows of the church and the Holy Spirit is breezing in. Praise God!

  3. Reblogged this on juniorstopdiscriminationtodaymayema and commented:
    Amazing just amazing, if we wanna end homophobia and violence against LGBT people in the world, it has to start with religious leaders that are the root of homophobia and violences against LGBT people because for most people it is their unfounded deeply held religious beliefs that incite them to commit violence against LGBT peopole

  4. Betty Gleason says:

    How refreshing! God has already blessed them with a committed relationship; we would only be recognizing that fact.

  5. Rev Dr C says:

    The Bishop of Antwerp is from Oostende in West Flanders and is a native Flemish speaker. When we seek to recognize the union of same-sex couples and give that equal status to the union of a hetero couple….. can we also have the decency to recognize that Flemish (Vlaams) is the language spoken by 6.25M people and not casually claim that the Bishop made his remarks in “Dutch” which is the language of the adjacent country. Diversity is about recognizing all aspects of culture.

    • No offense to Flemish speakers was intended by listing the language of the article as “Dutch.” I visited the De Morgen newspaper website, and my computer translated it into English and referenced Dutch as the original language. I also looked up information on De Morgen on the web, and I found it mentioned on a list of “Dutch language newspapers in Belgium.” I am aware that Flemish is an important Belgian language, and an important part of Belgian culture and identity, and my reference to Dutch as the language of the newspaper was based solely on the information that I had from the web about the newspaper. For sensitivity’s sake, I am deleting the language reference from the post.

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  7. Jos Tros says:

    Not only religions are homofobic, atheist Soviet and Nazi Germany were very homofobic as well

  8. Chuckee says:

    Wonderful…Love is love.. and a wondrous thing! Two become one and even in death of one are united.

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